The House is open Saturday nights and every other Friday. Please check our Party Dates for more information.

party dates

Please plan to be at The House by 10:30pm. If you cannot make it by then, please email us to cancel your reservation.

Upcoming Parties

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Friday, September 4th @ 7pm
Friday Female Fantasy Night

MALES PLEASE READ: all males will be held to the upmost respect. Any disrespect shown towards females or other males. You will be asked to leave the party. We will allow between 50 guys, 25 single females and 25 M/F couples into the party. Your plan for the evening is up to you. Whether you would like to observe- to find 1 guy, 2, or 10- it is all about the ladies’ desire. We have quite a few accommodations that can meet your need, such as our colored card method- where you get cards to fill out your do’s and dont's and the room you reserve for an allotted time, then you hand them out to the guys you choose to participate in your wildest fantasy’s come true. Blair PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Saturday, September 5th @ 1pm
Cheerleaders , Jocks & Geeks

Ok we are all ready to see all of you HOT cheerleaders, tough Jocks, Lovable Geeks! Who hasn't been wondering and fantasizing about whats under those sexy cheerleaders skirts. Well now it time to find out. If you dress the theme you are entered into a drawing for a free HOUSE pass. Both male & female have to dress the theme to be entered into the drawing. So lets have some fun! I do want to thank all of you for your support. I love to have a safe place for people to enjoy life as they want. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Friday, September 11th @ 7pm
Swingler Party

To get on the list: https://unboundrdu.com/the-house

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Saturday, September 12th @ 1pm
Thigh Highs & Garters

Ok girls, its time to have some sexy time here at THE HOUSE. Bring out some of your hottest Garters or Thigh Highs. Wear them in style and have some fun here. Tease them, make them want to talk with you about....???!!! And when in the mood to please and be pleased! So get your reservation requests in now for the drawing to fill spots we have open. See you soon B&A THE HOUSE

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A Safe Space to Explore

We are a on-premise party in lifestyle Raleigh, North Carolina

Reservation Requests Only

The only way to get into the party, is to send us a reservation request. Reservations are only made here on this website. We do not consider any requests from lifestyle websites a reservation.

Party Dates

No Pressure

There is absolutely NO pressure and no one is required to do anything that they do not wish to do. Great for new couples, soft swingers and experienced alike. No membership fees or dues.

A Safe Space

The purpose of our parties is to provide a place that is more than a traditional "swing club". It is an adult social lifestyle party, a place where people are free to explore their sexuality in a fun, but safe space social setting without pressure.

Communication

The House is many different things to many different people, however it is not for everyone. Your partner and relationship must be the highest priority in your involvement at The House. Constant, effective communication is essential to your success. We recommend that couples make joint decisions without pressure or persuasion. Any suggestions of coercion will not be tolerated.

Reservations By Request Only

We are not open to the general public

For your protection

Anyone that wishes to come to a party must sign an agreement form in order to be admitted to our party. The agreement form that you sign states that you understand this is a private adult party and you are not offended by nudity or adult situations. It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, you are at our club of your own free will and not here to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public. We do not sell or give out any of your information to anyone for any reason; we value your privacy as we do our own. There is no charge for our party, however we do accept donations to help cover the cost.