The House is open Saturday nights and every other Friday. Please check our Party Dates for more information.

party dates

Please plan to be at The House by 10:30pm. If you cannot make it by then, please email us to cancel your reservation.

Upcoming Parties

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Friday, June 13th @ 7pm
Friday Night Female Fantasy Night

MALES PLEASE READ: all males will be held to the upmost respect. Any disrespect shown towards females or other males. You will be asked to leave the party. We will allow between 50 guys, and 25 females, 25 couples into the party. Your plan for the evening is up to you. Whether you would like to observe- to find 1 guy, 2, or 10- it is all about the ladies’ desire. We have quite a few accommodations that can meet your need, such as our colored card method- where you get cards to fill out your do’s and dont's and the room you reserve for an allotted time, then you hand them out to the guys you choose to participate in your wildest fantasy’s come true. PS. I do want to thank all of you for your support. I love to have a safe place for people to enjoy life as they want. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Saturday, June 14th @ 1pm
Pool Party & Omelet Night

We are doing our Omelet party here at THE HOUSE . You asked about it, so we are going to do it again. That's right, what is better than being sexy all night, Then having your breakfast made for you. Our chef is going to cook you an omelet any way you like it. He will start cooking the omelets at 11PM. till 1AM. (Hamburgers, Hot dogs, Chicken, all day and night as usual.) You can get your menu to check off what you want in your omelet from the kitchen anytime during the night. Then starting at 11PM. he will cook your omelet to order for you. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Friday, June 20th @ 7pm
Swingler Private Party

Rainbow Carnival Welcome to the Rainbow Carnival—where every color shines, everybody belongs, and every talent deserves a spotlight (even the NSFW ones). As the sun sets and the pool starts to glow, we're kicking off the evening with a flash talent show on the upper deck from 7:30 to 8pm. Come show us what you’ve got—or sit back with a beverage and enjoy the dazzling spectrum of delights. After the show, the sexy pride heats up. Mingling, moonlight, and more reasons to get wet. Dress code: Carnival flair, rainbow wear, sequins, mesh, feathers, or barely-there swimwear. Make it pop, make it proud, make it you. Because when the stars come out, so do we. To get on the list: https://mingler.social/the-house

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Saturday, June 21st @ 1pm
Karaoke By The Pool

Ok it is time to do Karaoke again. Well with a twist. You must be topless or bottomless to do a song. Everyone will have a vote. The winner gets prize. So don't be shy, give it a try. If weather is good we will do this outside at the pool. If not we will do it in the dance room. Hope to see you all singing up soon. PS. I do want to thank all of you for your support. I love to have a safe place for people to enjoy life as they want. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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A Safe Space to Explore

We are a on-premise party in lifestyle Raleigh, North Carolina

Reservation Requests Only

The only way to get into the party, is to send us a reservation request. Reservations are only made here on this website. We do not consider any requests from lifestyle websites a reservation.

Party Dates

No Pressure

There is absolutely NO pressure and no one is required to do anything that they do not wish to do. Great for new couples, soft swingers and experienced alike. No membership fees or dues.

A Safe Space

The purpose of our parties is to provide a place that is more than a traditional "swing club". It is an adult social lifestyle party, a place where people are free to explore their sexuality in a fun, but safe space social setting without pressure.

Communication

The House is many different things to many different people, however it is not for everyone. Your partner and relationship must be the highest priority in your involvement at The House. Constant, effective communication is essential to your success. We recommend that couples make joint decisions without pressure or persuasion. Any suggestions of coercion will not be tolerated.

Reservations By Request Only

We are not open to the general public

For your protection

Anyone that wishes to come to a party must sign an agreement form in order to be admitted to our party. The agreement form that you sign states that you understand this is a private adult party and you are not offended by nudity or adult situations. It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, you are at our club of your own free will and not here to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public. We do not sell or give out any of your information to anyone for any reason; we value your privacy as we do our own. There is no charge for our party, however we do accept donations to help cover the cost.