The House is open Saturday nights and every other Friday. Please check our Party Dates for more information.

party dates

Please plan to be at The House by 10:30pm. If you cannot make it by then, please email us to cancel your reservation.

Upcoming Parties

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Friday, September 19th @ 7pm
Friday Night Female Fantasy Night

MALES PLEASE READ: all males will be held to the upmost respect. Any disrespect shown towards females or other males. You will be asked to leave the party. We will allow between 50 guys, and 25 females, 25 couples into the party. Your plan for the evening is up to you. Whether you would like to observe- to find 1 guy, 2, or 10- it is all about the ladies’ desire. We have quite a few accommodations that can meet your need, such as our colored card method- where you get cards to fill out your do’s and dont's and the room you reserve for an allotted time, then you hand them out to the guys you choose to participate in your wildest fantasy’s come true. PS. I do want to thank all of you for your support. I love to have a safe place for people to enjoy life as they want. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Saturday, September 20th @ 1pm
Slutfest & Studs

The party gets wild and unapologetically naughty with our First SLUTFEST! Ideas are Garters & Stockings, Corsets, Slutty lingerie. Guys Cowboyhats and speedos, and your hottest g string. It’s time to unleash your inner vixen. Bring your sexy Studs with you. PS. I do want to thank all of you for your support. I love to have a safe place for people to enjoy life as they want. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com We furnish soft drinks, as well as food and snacks. In our on-premise rooms you will find an assortment of personal items including condoms, lube, and wipes that make the lifestyle exploration clean and safe. We are BYOB as well. Blair

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Saturday, September 27th @ 7pm
Dress In Anything But Clothes Party

Ok this is the second time doing a party like this. Bring something with you to dress in besides clothes. Everyone will get a vote on who's idea is the best and that person wins 50 cash. Ideas Bandanas, Garbage bags. Ect. let your mind run wild. This can be alot of fun and for sure get everyone talking. So get your reservations in before we fill up. PS. I do want to thank all of you for your support. I love to have a safe place for people to enjoy life as they want. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com We are BYOB as well.

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Sunday, September 28th @ 1-7
Swingler Private Party

Ice Cream Social Savor the last lick of summer with a pool party so sweet, you might need a safeword. Join us for The Ice Cream Social—a sun-drenched afternoon of cool treats, hot bodies, and sticky situations (the good kind). Whether you're into classic vanilla or something a little more... experimental, bring an ice cream flavor to share with friends poolside! Dress like summer’s not over till you say it is: Think ice cream-colored mesh, whipped cream fantasy, or just your favorite swimwear and a wink. Let’s get one last taste. Before we melt into fall. To get on the list: https://mingler.social/the-house

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A Safe Space to Explore

We are a on-premise party in lifestyle Raleigh, North Carolina

Reservation Requests Only

The only way to get into the party, is to send us a reservation request. Reservations are only made here on this website. We do not consider any requests from lifestyle websites a reservation.

Party Dates

No Pressure

There is absolutely NO pressure and no one is required to do anything that they do not wish to do. Great for new couples, soft swingers and experienced alike. No membership fees or dues.

A Safe Space

The purpose of our parties is to provide a place that is more than a traditional "swing club". It is an adult social lifestyle party, a place where people are free to explore their sexuality in a fun, but safe space social setting without pressure.

Communication

The House is many different things to many different people, however it is not for everyone. Your partner and relationship must be the highest priority in your involvement at The House. Constant, effective communication is essential to your success. We recommend that couples make joint decisions without pressure or persuasion. Any suggestions of coercion will not be tolerated.

Reservations By Request Only

We are not open to the general public

For your protection

Anyone that wishes to come to a party must sign an agreement form in order to be admitted to our party. The agreement form that you sign states that you understand this is a private adult party and you are not offended by nudity or adult situations. It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, you are at our club of your own free will and not here to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public. We do not sell or give out any of your information to anyone for any reason; we value your privacy as we do our own. There is no charge for our party, however we do accept donations to help cover the cost.