The House is open Saturday nights and every other Friday. Please check our Party Dates for more information.

party dates

Please plan to be at The House by 10:30pm. If you cannot make it by then, please email us to cancel your reservation.

Upcoming Parties

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Saturday, December 20th @ 7pm
Fetish & Fantasy Night

Ok time to bring out the WILD in you! Wear your favorite kinky things: Leather, lace, rubber, Goth, Victorian, Steampunk, Puppies and Kittens, let you imagination run wild and then experience it here! No matter what your kink is, someone else shares it - and we all know sharing is caring right? Is your kink Rope play? Violet Wand? Bring it! I do want to thank all of you for your support. I love to have a safe place for people to enjoy life as they want. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Friday, December 26th @ 7pm
Friday Night Female Fantasy Night

MALES PLEASE READ: all males will be held to the upmost respect. Any disrespect shown towards females or other males. You will be asked to leave the party. We will allow between 35 guys, and 15 to 20 females into the party. Your plan for the evening is up to you. Whether you would like to observe- to find 1 guy, 2, or 10- it is all about the ladies’ desire. We have quite a few accommodations that can meet your need, such as our colored card method- where you get cards to fill out your do’s and dont's and the room you reserve for an allotted time, then you hand them out to the guys you choose to participate in your wildest fantasy’s come true. Blair PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Saturday, December 27th @ 7pm
Dirty Santa Game

1. If you plan to play each couple brings one wrapped gift to contribute to a common pool. Try to stay below 20 dollar gift. 2. Players draw numbers to determine what order they will go in 4. The first player selects a gift from the pool and opens it. 5. The following players can choose to either pick an unwrapped gift from the pool or steal a previous player’s gift. Anyone who gets their gift stolen in this way can do the same – choose a new gift or steal from someone else. 6. After all players have had a turn, the first player gets a chance to swap the gift he or she is holding for any other opened gift. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com We furnish soft drinks, as well as food and snacks. In our on-premise rooms you will find an assortment of personal items including condoms, lube, and wipes that make the lifestyle exploration clean and safe. We are BYOB as well. Party is from 7pm till 2am. Blair

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Wednesday, December 31st @ 7pm
New Years Eve (Wednesday Party)

New Years Eve We hope you spend your New Years Eve with us here at THE HOUSE. We will have party favors, hats, and something to toast the New Year in with. So make plans to join us. Plenty of time to make plans. So hurry and make your reservations and join us. Donation is still the same at our New Years Party just like our regular parties. We will be serving a special dinner at 9pm. Prime Rib & . . . . . You wont be disappointed ! Regular food as always from 7pm all night. So make your reservations before they are all gone. We only allow 40 couples to each party.

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A Safe Space to Explore

We are a on-premise party in lifestyle Raleigh, North Carolina

Reservation Requests Only

The only way to get into the party, is to send us a reservation request. Reservations are only made here on this website. We do not consider any requests from lifestyle websites a reservation.

Party Dates

No Pressure

There is absolutely NO pressure and no one is required to do anything that they do not wish to do. Great for new couples, soft swingers and experienced alike. No membership fees or dues.

A Safe Space

The purpose of our parties is to provide a place that is more than a traditional "swing club". It is an adult social lifestyle party, a place where people are free to explore their sexuality in a fun, but safe space social setting without pressure.

Communication

The House is many different things to many different people, however it is not for everyone. Your partner and relationship must be the highest priority in your involvement at The House. Constant, effective communication is essential to your success. We recommend that couples make joint decisions without pressure or persuasion. Any suggestions of coercion will not be tolerated.

Reservations By Request Only

We are not open to the general public

For your protection

Anyone that wishes to come to a party must sign an agreement form in order to be admitted to our party. The agreement form that you sign states that you understand this is a private adult party and you are not offended by nudity or adult situations. It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, you are at our club of your own free will and not here to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public. We do not sell or give out any of your information to anyone for any reason; we value your privacy as we do our own. There is no charge for our party, however we do accept donations to help cover the cost.