The House is open Saturday nights and every other Friday. Please check our Party Dates for more information.

party dates

Please plan to be at The House by 10:30pm. If you cannot make it by then, please email us to cancel your reservation.

Upcoming Parties

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Saturday, October 11th @ 7pm
Pass The Dirty Word Game

This is a fun little game. Very Easy to play. We start with groups of four people and one DIRTY word the then the next person has to add ONE word to that. Keeps going until someone messes up and start again. The two finale winners face off for a 50 cash prize. Game will start about 11pm. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com We are BYOB as well. Party is from 7pm till 2am. Blair

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Friday, October 17th @ 7pm
Friday Night Female Fantasy Night

MALES PLEASE READ: all males will be held to the upmost respect. Any disrespect shown towards females or other males. You will be asked to leave the party. We will allow between 35 guys, and 15 to 20 females into the party. Your plan for the evening is up to you. Whether you would like to observe- to find 1 guy, 2, or 10- it is all about the ladies’ desire. We have quite a few accommodations that can meet your need, such as our colored card method- where you get cards to fill out your do’s and dont's and the room you reserve for an allotted time, then you hand them out to the guys you choose to participate in your wildest fantasy’s come true. Blair PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room for rent. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Saturday, October 18th @ 7pm
Scavenger Hunt

Ok time to come out and have some good fun with us here at THE HOUSE. It is our Scavenger Hunt party. Starting at 10pm you can pick up your list from the front desk. There will be some very easy things for you to find and do. And then some not so easy for some of you. You must complete the whole thing then hand it to Blair. The first to hand it in wins. There will be a 1st and 2nd place prize! So get your reservation request in soon. Anyone caught cheating will be disqualified. PS. Don't forget we have the cozy camper or the Pink room. Email for details. reservations@iltephouse.com

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Friday, October 24th @ 7pm
Swingler Private Party

Fantasy Night: Fairies, Vampires, Mythical Creatures The final Swingler seduction of the season One last night. One last plunge. One final excuse to be whoever—or whatever—you dare. Step into the shadows of the poolside underworld, where wings, horns, and harnesses are more than welcome... and innocence is strictly optional. Dress to seduce, scare, or serve. Latex, lace, leather, mesh, glitter, fangs, body paint—go full fantasy. Go full you. Let’s close the season with a whisper, a howl, a moan, and a splash. To get on the list: https://mingler.social/the-house

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A Safe Space to Explore

We are a on-premise party in lifestyle Raleigh, North Carolina

Reservation Requests Only

The only way to get into the party, is to send us a reservation request. Reservations are only made here on this website. We do not consider any requests from lifestyle websites a reservation.

Party Dates

No Pressure

There is absolutely NO pressure and no one is required to do anything that they do not wish to do. Great for new couples, soft swingers and experienced alike. No membership fees or dues.

A Safe Space

The purpose of our parties is to provide a place that is more than a traditional "swing club". It is an adult social lifestyle party, a place where people are free to explore their sexuality in a fun, but safe space social setting without pressure.

Communication

The House is many different things to many different people, however it is not for everyone. Your partner and relationship must be the highest priority in your involvement at The House. Constant, effective communication is essential to your success. We recommend that couples make joint decisions without pressure or persuasion. Any suggestions of coercion will not be tolerated.

Reservations By Request Only

We are not open to the general public

For your protection

Anyone that wishes to come to a party must sign an agreement form in order to be admitted to our party. The agreement form that you sign states that you understand this is a private adult party and you are not offended by nudity or adult situations. It also states that if you are a member of the media or law enforcement, you are at our club of your own free will and not here to gather anyone's personal information or make anyone's personal information/identity known to the general public. We do not sell or give out any of your information to anyone for any reason; we value your privacy as we do our own. There is no charge for our party, however we do accept donations to help cover the cost.